Category: the Rant Board
okay, this is probablly gonna make me sound really stupid, but I don't fucking care. I am sick to death! of having my appinion thrown back in my face all the time, or people turning it into something it's not. I'm really tired of being called things that I most definintly! am not either. Just because I give an appinion about something, doesn't mean that I have to get dumped on because I gave it, or I made an inocent comment. I mean, just cause I'm friends with someone and try to stick up for them, doesn't mean that I want to go jump into bed with them, or, if they're female, doesn't mean that they always come running to me all the time. other people around here can give multiple oppinions and no-one gives a fuck, but if I do it, I'm automaticly called a "intercontinental internet slut" I am not, and never will be a slut or anything like that. I have way to much respect for myself to do things like that.
plus, I'm really tired of having to defend myself to thoes who don't kno the first thing about me, and choose to judge me on what is written. Fare enough if I kno the person doing the judging, and they kno me well enough to do that, but I don't think people should judge someone with out at least talking to them first, as in having a conversation and getting to kno someone before passing judgement on them. I think people should be man or woman enough to come ask questians of someone before putting out that he or she is a player or a hore.
Liz, I tend to agree. I've talked with some individuals privately who have said they will curtail or eliminate spending time on the Zone because of the behaviors of which you speak. As for me, I'm discriminating on the boards to which I psot and read. My opinion is just that; my opinion.
Lou
If it bothers you so much then walk away and don't come back. Obviously it doesn't bother you that much because you continue to come back knowing how it will end.
Liz, I can understand your frustrations to a certain degree, however I think that you do need to face certain realities and realize here that perhaps the problem isn't completely with everybody else. I mean I see from a quick glance at your profile that you joined this site on the 10th of November last year, so less than 9 months ago, and in that time you've had so called relationships with Lutherk, Sudzy and FlyingPhoenix, plus have drooled extensively over both cam's on the boards. Now, and I speak frankly here Liz, a bigger collection of weirdoes, pond scum and players it would actually be hard to put together in a hurry. In fact, you'd only have to add fsu123 to that collection and you'd have the full set!
now you can rale at the injustice of it all, but as the saying goes, you can only make a first impression once. Opinions can of course change, but you earned yourself this reputation I'm afraid to say and it's you that is going to have to rid yourself of it again. Complaining about it isn't going to help, though of course you are completely free to do so if you wish. What will help is if you handle yourself in the manor that you seem to have been doing in more recent times, and perhaps give a little more consideration to the people that you like before immediately calling them a boyfriend.
People are quick to judge on here, possibly quicker than in off line experiences, but that's just how things are and I'm afraid to say that complaining about it isn't going to change things very much, indeed at all truth be told. *Smiles*.
I'm not saying all of this as some kind of personal attack either. Just offering some advice. We all make mistakes, there's no such thing as perfect after all, but the important thing is to learn something from those mistakes and that's definitely what you have to do. Opinions of you will change, but only if you give those people a chance to change those opinions. It's no good now complaining about the things that people are either saying too or about you, and then in a few weeks time start broadcasting to the site that you have yet another conquest.
The point here is that yes, people will make overly quick decisions about other people on this site sometimes and as a result some harsh, possibly even untrue things will be said, however you've made things a whole lot easier for people to make those judgments about you and say those things by your own actions.
Good luck anyway.
Dan.
That's why I never come here. Too many fucking crybabies and drama queens. Grow the fuck up!!!! every last one of you!!!!!
you never come here? Who posted then? ...
Again seaking for atention
dan i don't think there has been a post of yours that i've come across that i haven't enjoyed reading. you take what others are thinking and wanting to say and put it in the actual written words. now so that i'm not just complimenting you and going totally off topic...
liz, i would have liked to have said the same as dan but wouldn't have said it so well. this is very good advice and if i were you, i'd take it into great consideration.
i'm with Dan on this one. lol, like pippy i sure couldn't have worded it that well! just to throw my two cents in, As i have said to Hope and others complaining about people meddling in there personal life and forming there own opinions on things they know nothing about. If you don't want this to happen, then keep it off the boards, graffiti and quick notes! What we don't know we can't form opinions of! This is the internet, you tend to judge people by what you read! So liz in all the things we read about you. your changing guys all the time. in and out of love and making drama about all your little flings. I may be wrong , and it may not be this way at all. but when you see it on the boards time after time, what do you expect people to think?
So let it die down. don't add fuel to the fire, then maybe people will see the real you, if you say this isn't her!
and can i add that if that isn't the real you, please start showing us the real you through your board posts and such. this is the only way that i have to get to know you. and well i haven't seen the "real" you yet. please change that.
Dan is 100 % right, and I have no intentions of posting who I love or don't on any board ever again. I created this cause I was mad, and I have had enough. I certainly won't be posting anything about my love life around anywhere. I have learnt the hard way, that's for sure.